Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are set to marry: Their journey from musical partners to a lifetime commitment

Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco are officially engaged, marking a major milestone in their relationship with an emotional and public announcement. On December 11, 2024, just after Gomez received double Golden Globe nominations, she took to Instagram to share the joyous news with her followers. In her post, the 32-year-old star, known for her role in Only Murders in the Building, shared a series of photos showcasing her stunning marquise-shaped diamond ring, with the caption, “Forever begins now.” Her fiancé, Blanco, 36, who has been dating Gomez since 2023, reacted to the post with humor, writing in the comments, “Hey wait … that’s my wife.” Adding a personal touch, Gomez’s close friend, Taylor Swift, also joined the conversation, jokingly offering to be a flower girl at the wedding.

The engagement comes after a year of public displays of affection and personal updates from the couple, with Gomez frequently sharing her feelings about Blanco’s impact on her life. In her post and through her comments, Gomez described Blanco as a “complete light” in her life and shared how deeply loved and appreciated she feels by him. For the actress and singer, this engagement marks a significant and heartfelt new chapter in her life with someone who has not only been a romantic partner but also a source of unwavering support and joy.

Gomez and Blanco’s love story goes back to their professional collaborations in the music industry. Blanco, a Grammy-nominated producer and songwriter, has worked with Gomez on several of her hit songs, including “Same Old Love” (2015) and “Single Soon” (2023). Their professional relationship blossomed into a personal one, with Gomez appearing on Blanco’s 2019 track “I Can’t Get Enough,” and starring in its music video. Over the years, their bond grew stronger, and in December 2023, when a fan shared a photo of them together on Instagram, Gomez confirmed they were a couple. In her comment, she called Blanco “my absolute everything” and shared that they had been in a relationship for six months at that point. She also posted a picture of herself wearing a “B” ring on her left hand, signaling a deeper commitment between the two.

Throughout 2024, the couple continued to share their growing love story with the world. They made their public debut as a couple in January 2024 while sitting courtside together at a Los Angeles Lakers game, looking cozy and affectionate. Later that month, Gomez brought Blanco as her date to the Golden Globes, where they kept a low profile while still sharing a few personal snapshots on her Instagram. Shortly after, they attended the 2023 Emmy Awards, where they were seen cuddling and supporting each other during the ceremony. In March, Gomez posted a heartfelt birthday tribute to Blanco on Instagram, expressing her admiration for his emotional strength, positive attitude, and incredible talent. Her post read, “Happy birthday baby! Your emotional endurance, positive disposition, unbelievable talent (that blows me away), undeniable humor, and loving, kind heart absolutely kill me. I love you.”

As their relationship continued to develop, the couple shared more intimate moments with their fans. In May 2024, Blanco appeared on The Howard Stern Show and opened up about his relationship with Gomez, calling her his “best friend” and saying that they laugh together all day. When Stern asked if marriage was in their future, Blanco responded with, “You and me both.” He also shared that they had been together for nearly a year at that point and expressed his desire to have children, with plans to start a family in the near future. Later, in July 2024, Blanco posted a sweet tribute to Gomez on her 32nd birthday, reminiscing about the time they spent together during the making of the “I Can’t Get Enough” video. His message read, “I used to play a teddy bear in ur music video and now I get to b urs in real life … happy bday bb! I love u!” Gomez replied with a simple, “I love you” in the comments.

By September 2024, Gomez had opened up further about the depth of her relationship with Blanco. In a cover story for Vanity Fair, she revealed how his love had transformed her life, saying, “I’ve never been loved this way. He’s just been a light. A complete light in my life. He’s my best friend. I love telling him everything.” When asked about Blanco’s earlier comments regarding marriage, Gomez laughed and said she was in no rush, emphasizing that she wanted to do things right, not quickly. Gomez also shared that, due to her lupus diagnosis, she would not be able to carry children herself, but she and Blanco planned to start a family through adoption or surrogacy before she turns 35.

In October 2024, Gomez reflected on her decision to share more of her relationship with the public. When asked about their openness on social media, she explained, “I guess this is the safest I’ve ever felt in one, and I see a future with this person. And when you put a little bit out there, people are not as hungry to hunt you down. But there’s so much of my relationship people don’t see, that’s just mine.” Gomez brought Blanco as her date to the premiere of her Netflix film Emilia Pérez in Los Angeles on October 21, and at the second annual Rare Impact Fund Benefit Supporting Youth Mental Health event in October, Blanco was by her side as her date, further solidifying their strong partnership.

In November 2024, Blanco spoke to People magazine about their relationship, revealing how every day with Gomez felt like “the best day of my life.” He shared that their bond was built on being attentive and present for each other. He also expressed how much he cherished their quiet moments together, especially early mornings, when they both wake up early and share a peaceful moment before the rest of the world starts. Gomez echoed this sentiment, praising Blanco’s attention to detail and the way he deeply cares for her. When asked about Blanco’s appearance on CBS Sunday Morning, where he was named one of the magazine’s Sexiest Men Alive, Gomez proudly referred to him as “my man” and praised his unwavering support and dedication to their relationship.

Finally, in December 2024, the couple shared their engagement with the world. Gomez posted the news on Instagram, showing off her marquise diamond ring—a subtle but meaningful nod to a lyric from her 2015 song “Good for You,” where she sang about being a “marquise diamond” gal. The photos accompanying the post captured special moments from their proposal, including a sweet picnic with Taco Bell and intimate moments of Blanco kissing Gomez on the head while she displayed her ring. The engagement marks the next chapter in their love story, which has evolved from a professional relationship into a deep, genuine partnership filled with love, laughter, and mutual respect. As they move forward together, it’s clear that Gomez and Blanco’s relationship is built on a solid foundation of friendship, emotional support, and a shared vision for the future.